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Here is my Story! I met this guy who's name is Shawn and lives in Savannah, GA! We started dating in December of 2007. Like any new relationship everything was perfect! He was very attentive, held hands, did and said all the right things!
Called me three times a day, to tell me how sexy I was. Thought I had found the right guys, after three months we went on vacation together. Again everything was wonderful! We saw each other every waking minute together. Then red flags started to pop up! His personality changed! He would tell me about all the women he had dated in the past, and how all those relationships ended badly! Hmmm! I thought no this will never happen to me or us! He lived in the past, angry over the fact that his ex wife divorced him for cheating! (Found this out from his best friend) Next thing I know we have no friends, its just him and I. He wanted to control our relationship, where we went, ate, danced, what grocery store we frequented. If I received a compliment from another man, he pouted, but stated he was not the jealous type! We quit going to the gym, I received too much attention! He seemed disconnected, could not express his feelings, loner, very secretive, never talked about his family or child hood! After two years I found out that he had two sisters, and a half brother. he would schedule a trip to the West Coast, and not tell me about it or invite me to go with him. But he would call me from some bar and tell me that he missed me! Yeah right! I was so blind! Once again I thought he would change! Not a chance! Also spends the night with his ex-wife when traveling to see his daughter...too cheap to spend the money on a hotel. Oh by the way once you are dating for a while, he will ask you to pay for half of everything! Have your wallet ready! He is a predator, looks for women who are financially stable! Once told me that the reason we were dating was that I was not a victim and could pay my own way!
Another red flag he watched porn at least five hours or more! Including porn as young as thirteen years old! This was very alarming to me! When I would question him about anything, he would change the subject! I was not allowed to talk or bring up subjects that were a concern. He kept in touch with old girlfriends that were his past "fuck buddies". But said I didn't have anything to worry about! I was also told after the fact that his 'MO" was to find a women talk into having sex, date her for a day, a month or year! Then tell her that he was the type to self-destruct every relationship he has ever had! His statement to me was this what I do, so I can move on to the next women! Found out that he has dated at least 50 women in the Savannah, GA area alone. Girls beware! You will recognize him he will be wearing jeans that two sizes to small and cowboy boots! A tight shirt to show off his belly hanging over the side! His pick up line is where are you from? Then he will slide in start a charming conversation, next thing you know he has talked you into following him home. He likes to tie his women up in restraints, all the while telling you how beautiful and sexy you are! He will pursue you if he is interested and then dump you when he feels trapped. Especially if he is asked for a commitment, or proclaim his love! That will never happen! His next line is "this is what I do I self destructive every relationship I have every had" How lame! or if he does not like you, then after one or two months he will just quit calling,. But if you like this type of guy then he is your man! BTW he is always right, and he will tell you so, He's a racist! and degrades everyone he finds fault with! What a Guy! What a Catch! Take a good look at this MUG SHOT and RUN!
This is Sharon and her two girls (both of which now hate her) she is a lying cheating psyhopath! She is incapable of love allthough she frequently tells victems she loves them. When she told me I was the "love of her life" it bothered me that she had told that to several others and I know she will say it again. If you meet her RUN she will do all the things she acuses you of.
You can please some of the people all of the time and all of the people some of the time, but you canÃ¯Â¿Â½t please all of the people all of the time.
"How do you pick up the threads of an old life? How do you go on, when in your heart, you begin to understand; there is no going back, there are some things that time cannot mend, some hurts that go too deep, that have taken hold." Frodo, Lord of the Rings Ã¯Â¿Â½ Tolkien
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"Abuse takes many forms: physical battering or it's threat, sexual violence, psychological/emotional abuse, including economic domination, using children, intimidation, extreme controlling behavior, and abuse of pets. An estimated 3 to 4 million American women are battered each year by their husbands or partners. "
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